Tuesday, April 7, 2026

Nomad Life - Day 200

Brenna woke me up with bright lights and coffee making at 0630.  Since I'd gone to bed so late (due to getting carried away with a good book), I hadn't even set my alarm...  As a result, this was an uncomfortable awakening.  Reluctantly, I started teleworking and did my best to continue the small talk until Brenna departed (0715).  In my unusually tired state, I still managed to power through the whole day teleworking.  Meanwhile, I ate a light breakfast (snack foods) and lunch was a short stack of pancakes I made in Brenna's kitchen.  At times through the day, I did chores (laundry, dishes, minor household repairs, etc.) for Brenna.  After getting done with my work day (1645), I worked on my blog and caught up on reading and puzzles.  Brenna got home at 1715 and seemed glad with the work I'd done around her apartment.  Like me, though, she was also very tired.  Despite the fatigue, she started making dinner (ground turkey burgers) in her air fryer - I tried to help her (in improving the consistency) and we were mildly successful.  Jesse arrived at 1750 and showed a lot of concern for the cooking of the poultry (because he is always in Ultra-Run mode, he is very knowledgeable about food).  We all talked for a while about their upcoming (pre-engagement) couples counseling and I wished them well.  At 1715, Brenna and Jesse departed to meet with the counselor.  Meanwhile, I worked on my blog a bit longer before departing myself - I wanted to find a good place for a walk nearby.  I should note that I'd been procrastinating all day about doing errands Brenna had mentioned - with the decision to seek out some steps towards my daily goal, I had (once again) postponed the shopping trip.  Recalling a walk I'd done (with Brenna and Jesse during my last visit to Harrisonburg) at Lake Shenandoah I drove to the nearest parking lot for the trail system.  The weather was still very pleasant (temps in the 50s but clear and sunny).  The parking lot had signs about paying a fee for activities on the property but I checked all the other cars - no one had any indications they'd followed the parking rules.  With the remaining light I had, I ended up completing two full circuits of the lake.  Along the way, I encountered lots of birds and a few deer - only a few other people were nearby.  I was finished with my walk at 1945 and made my way back to Brenna's house (arrived at 2000).  Discovering that my daughter and her boyfriend weren't back yet, I thought I had correctly predicted 2030 as the time that their counseling would end.  While waiting for them to return, I worked some more on my blog, did some reading, Duolingo and puzzles.  Jesse and Brenna returned at 2015 and were laughing when they told me their counseling had ended about 45 minutes earlier.  They confessed they'd been "watching me" (using the "find my phone" app) and knew that they had time to go grocery shopping without me realizing that they weren't still with the counselor.  Excitedly, they showed me their bags of groceries (they'd had time to shop while I was walking) - My daughter informed me that I would need to judge two different dessert offerings they planned to make for me: Brenna would make low sugar brownies from a box and Jesse would create homemade healthy "cheesecake".  At first, I told them I was uncomfortable being the middle of such a competition but Brenna insisted.  In the end, I admitted that both offerings were really good and told them it was too tough to find a winner.  In passing, I did note that Jesse had to come up with his own combinations of cottage cheese, Greek yogurt, graham crackers (etc.) - "Giddy Brenna" was definitely on display after this - she joked that she'd worked hard too.  Later, we sat together on Brenna's couch and watched YouTube selections (mostly from "Wreck it Ralph").  Meanwhile, I drank a few of Brenna's old "Twisted Teas" (they were VERY old).  We had lots of laughs but the tiredness from the morning wasn't getting any better...  Jesse finally departed at 2215 and Brenna said goodnight to me soon afterwards.  Before calling it a night myself, I read some more but finally went to bed (on Brenna's couch) at 2330.  Feeling good about the opportunity to help out my daughter, get to know her boyfriend better and spend time in cooler spring air!